How to Find a Boyfriend or Girlfriend

By Ali Belhis

Can the life be lived alone? Certainly, simple people ask themselves this question. But, is it in their cases their own choice? Or, can’t they find the way to meet a mate? Anyway, human relationships are a very wide subject. One of the aspects is how two people can meet each other, or how a single person can find a boyfriend or a girlfriend.

At first, it is useless to use our energy everywhere. It is safe to economize it, because the way to find the person corresponding to ourselves is long and difficult. That is why it is more sure to have a strategy. Before all, we have to ask ourselves which type of person we would like to approach. For that, it is necessary to set a profile about physical characteristics, about characteristics of the mind, such as the feelings, the hobbies and so on. However, until then, the search remains in a theoretic step. Now, the most important is to act. The most difficult things to do are yet to come.

The second step is to list people who can help you, especially people who have male or female friends in their relationships. After, with a lot of patience, we can visit them or call them. At this point, we can explicitly ask them their opinions without beating around the bush, and try to convince them to help us. Whatever, if we are unsuccessful to obtain their cooperation, we can alter this plan. A good idea is to begin to go in the fashionable places, like cafés, restaurants, clubs, and so on. At this time, to be courageous is necessary, because we have to use subtle ways to go toward new people and overall, we are frequently alone.

Third, what kinds of attitude make us interesting? To be witty is an advantage. We can also speak humorously to start a conversation. Meanwhile, to behave romantically can help to keep touch and to initiate a first contact. Next, with imagination and a lot of work, we can make him or her think that we are the most wonderful person on Earth, on the condition that we don t bother her or him.

Finally, to share our life with someone else is fun, but it can take a lot of time before we can find someone. There is not only one way, but there are as many ways as people. All people are different and each has to choose his or her own way.