How to Get a Boyfriend or Girlfriend

By Yu Ihara

Now, do you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend? If you don’t, do you have a time to feel lonely, or have you ever wanted a boyfriend or a girlfriend? If you have one, you won’t spend Christmas or your birthday alone anymore. And you can enjoy a time with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Sometimes, you may have some troubles about him or her. So, you can experience not only good things but also bad things. All you experience is an important part of your life. It’s not difficult to get a boyfriend or girlfriend if you follow six steps. But, don’t forget this: "It depends on you and your partner."

First, if you have a person who you like, you should try to talk to him or her. If you don’t have a person who you like, you don’t need a boyfriend or girlfriend. Anyway, if you like someone, you should make a good impression on him or her. The key of this is to smile as many times as you can especially in front of him or her. Next, you should try to get his or her phone number and email address. In short, you ought to get in touch with him or her and make the relationship better.

Then, you can try to have a date with him or her. This step is quite difficult because you have to plan for a date. For example, you have to think where you should go, and what you should do. I recommend that you go to watch a movie because you can get a topic about the movie you watched. Accordingly, an uneasy silence doesn’t fall over you. Moreover, watching a movie can help you if your weak point is talking because while you are watching a movie, you don’t have to talk with him or her. After that, all you have to do is repeat the invitation to him or her to go on a date.

Finally, if you feel you can get him or her, all you can do is to declare your feeling for him or her. I recommend you declare it for him or her face-to-face because this is easier for him or her to feel your feeling exactly. What is more, this is more difficult for him or her to refuse your feeling. If you declare your feeling by a phone or email, you have to prepare for that. This step is the most important, because, you should do your best. For instance, you have to think where you declare your feeling, what you say, and when you can do it. Don’t look down on the situation and atmosphere.

Eventually, everyone may experience something relative to a boyfriend or a girlfriend. He or she may be an important part of your life. That sounds very convincing because a boyfriend or a girlfriend can give something precious to you. Probably, just a friend doesn’t have the same meaning. If you don’t have a boyfriend or a girlfriend and you want a boyfriend or a girlfriend, you can do it!! I’m sure of it.